An error message appears saying "The following are not allowed: no zionist, no zionists" when users try to add the phrase to their bios, but any number of other phrases about political and religious preferences are allowed.
It’s funny, I’ve gotten accusations of bigotry in my grindr profile for saying “No-one DL”. I intended it solely as a way to avoid men who cheat on their spouses, I don’t want any part of that. But I’ve been accused of being bigoted towards people in cultures where being openly queer is uncommon or even dangerous.
yeah I’ve seen that argument but it’s dumb because it boils down to “not sleeping with me means you hate me”
No dude I just don’t want to be involved in your secret gay bullshit. Not only am I almost certainly being complicit in cheating (most of these guys are married with children too) but you’re guaranteed emotional unavailability with higher chances of domestic violence.
I will always fight to improve cultural outlook and I do empathize and feel bad for those guys who feel like they need to live a double life; that sounds exhausting. It doesn’t mean I need to entertain their “forbidden” lust.
“No rice, no spice”
is this just white people racism in the way i imagine it is?
Yes.
It’s funny, I’ve gotten accusations of bigotry in my grindr profile for saying “No-one DL”. I intended it solely as a way to avoid men who cheat on their spouses, I don’t want any part of that. But I’ve been accused of being bigoted towards people in cultures where being openly queer is uncommon or even dangerous.
yeah I’ve seen that argument but it’s dumb because it boils down to “not sleeping with me means you hate me”
No dude I just don’t want to be involved in your secret gay bullshit. Not only am I almost certainly being complicit in cheating (most of these guys are married with children too) but you’re guaranteed emotional unavailability with higher chances of domestic violence.
I will always fight to improve cultural outlook and I do empathize and feel bad for those guys who feel like they need to live a double life; that sounds exhausting. It doesn’t mean I need to entertain their “forbidden” lust.
What does no-one DL mean?
DL is “down low”. They intend to be secretive, usually extremely so, and some men can be dangerously (violently) paranoid v
I thought it meant Double Life
That’s not an unreasonable guess, frankly.
I saw “download” which means you will not watch my multiple terabytes of legally acquires media (I don’t go on grindr)
DL = down low, essentially people still in the closet
Hey, Dr. Umar, king of Pan-Africanism, uses the same terminology!
(Yes, just racism)