• Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    Also the whole “the only solution is to buy guns and start shooting” while being pessimistic and unengaged, yet somehow falling into a hero fantasy where the big person with a gun solves all. They’re not talking about building a parallel economy, mutual aid, support groups, and just generally building community, which are actually stronger moves than buying guns.

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      2 months ago

      like, just go out and smile at someone in line in the coffee shop. that’s it. be friendly. if you think of a [and i can’t believe i have to say this but it’s the internet and 2026 so: non-creepy] compliment, give it to someone. that’s it. not as a prelude to flirting, not just to the opposite sex (or whatever you’re attracted to), just to compliment them. brighten their day. something as simple as “yo, i like your shoes.” there are days you will need it, so pay it forward.

      that is step one in building a community.