it’s been a bad word for a long time, mostly for children. many parents try to prohibit it because it really does come out as hateful more often than not

I’m kinda surprised you found this community. I’d suspect that you have used Lemmy longer then the age of this account. And so I surmise that your understanding of some of the basic dynamics of culture that some instances uphold, is there.

the fact you can’t respect something like pronouns is telling. calling it stupid neopronouns and complaining about being banned from 196, you probably deserve the ban… for trolling