If you read all of the words I said its clear im not saying that gender is binary anyways.
It’s pretty clear
It was not clear… not to me and others too it seems. I quoted your removed comment because I was so confused. But I think we’ve already gone over that misunderstanding. Your modlog is public, and is usually what this community looks at, but I get the feeling it has reopened that wound, for that I am sorry. I have said things wrong as well and take the L from them, and learn from them. We are not perfect. Your explanations here were much better, thank you for explaining. I try not to be intentionally hurtful, but even I fail at that.
It’s a weird thing but I think a lot of it has to do with the tone of voice you read it in, in your head… If I said those exact same words outloud it wouldn’t be an issue
I’ve had it a lot where I say something plainly in a text but if there’s any disagreement, people think I’m fighting with them.
So much is lost without facial expressions and intonation… and that’s something I could do much better with, especially when talking about things people feel very personal about.
And especially if they’ve been feeling threatened over it by large swaths of society.
It was not clear… not to me and others too it seems. I quoted your removed comment because I was so confused. But I think we’ve already gone over that misunderstanding. Your modlog is public, and is usually what this community looks at, but I get the feeling it has reopened that wound, for that I am sorry. I have said things wrong as well and take the L from them, and learn from them. We are not perfect. Your explanations here were much better, thank you for explaining. I try not to be intentionally hurtful, but even I fail at that.
It’s a weird thing but I think a lot of it has to do with the tone of voice you read it in, in your head… If I said those exact same words outloud it wouldn’t be an issue
I’ve had it a lot where I say something plainly in a text but if there’s any disagreement, people think I’m fighting with them.
So much is lost without facial expressions and intonation… and that’s something I could do much better with, especially when talking about things people feel very personal about.
And especially if they’ve been feeling threatened over it by large swaths of society.