• Xaphanos@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    From personal experience, I can tell you that being over 40 when you have a kid is a huge benefit. More patience, more money, more acceptance. Young parents tend to be emotionally unprepared for the challenges.

    I’m over 60. My wife and I have a great trusting relationship with our teen son. He comes to us with concerns and problems. We encourage him to have all the room he wants to have his independent life. He is involved in all major decisions.

    Maturity certainly has strong benefits. It is unfortunate that it also comes as the body begins to decay.

    My grandmother died of Alzheimer’s - her mind failed long before her body. We are caring for a relative with Parkinson’s - her body has failed long before her mind.

    It is best to take the individual into account. It would also be great if the lying of politicians was a prosecutable offense.